but then remembered DR...there is one verse that mentions "do not second guess that he wants to go back to ow".... so, I stopped. Am telling myself to not focus on H's moods. I have to just look at the positives and focus on the boys. Shouldn't ask him anything...don't want to open a can of worms. I guessed when he is ready to take any action (good or bad), I am going to see it. So no point being impatient now...especially I have been so patient for so long.
I agree focusing on 'his' moods is not the way to go because it will only effect yours and like you said thinking positive is the only way to go!!
I hope he makes it for S's bday! and hopefully he'll take that ring!
