don't be surprised if there is some little contact with OW after it ends. I know they are supposed to break it off completely by most affairs are not text book affairs when ending it. KDK - H actually does acknowledge that ow still calls him, and that they still talk, or as per his exact words yesterday "actually, we have been arguing a lot lately". So, definitely not surprised that this is not a text book breakup.
Brazilian ~ ouch. It better work out after that sacrifice I have to say that it hurts like h@ll but the was rather fun. I have to say that I felt kinda sexy (but definitely not while the brazilian is executed. Felt kinda grossed out.... )
Journalling... From my last post, H called me about 7 pm in the evening, told me that he had just talked to boys and asked how come I am not back yet. Blah blah blah ..ended with "call you tomorrow".
Got home, sorted boys out for bed...and as I was going into the shower, home phone rang. It was H. Long convo. Very light and humourous although it involved H's R with ow. Made some fun about it all. SOme parts of our convo...not in order. Me: You have been lavishing on ow..and here I am scrimping... H: How do you know that I have been lavishing on her? Couldn't it be her lavishing on me instead? Me: In that case, ask her to lavish on me too...my Prada handbag is kinda in a bad shape. Tell her I need a new one. H: (Chuckling away....)
Me: So, what do you do at night? One hand holding her photograph, and the other the phone talking to her. And simultaneously kissing her photograph and whisper I LOVE U, I MISS U... H: Hey..crazy... I am not soo mushy, okay? Me: That's what whirlwind romance are supposed to be... lots of I love u etc etc. Your letters to me used to have 10 I love Us... H: Really? Guessed I am not so romantic these days. Actually, we have been arguing a lot these days.
Me: Actually, what is your plan? H: To break up with ow permanently Me: So..what is the status.. H: You just keep quiet. You are very noisy. You have been with me for sooo long, so just be with me a little longer.. (Don't really know what that means)
H: One of these trips back, I will take back my wedding ring. Me: Heard that before....like 4 months ago. H: Just keep quiet.. Me: So, does that mean that you are gonna return her stuff? H: Yup Me: What? You bringing them back with you? Or she is going to make a trip to country X? H: Of course I bring it back. Can't exactly ask her to come over for the break-up, right? Me: I would I know you? Maybe you wanna have a final sc@ew??
Anyway, after our convo...went shower. Heard phone rang again. WHen I came out...missed call from H. Sent him a text "Why? Miss my humour? ...in the shower..."
And H called me back immediately...just to tell me something very very trivial...Said our good nights.
This morning..TUesday.. HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE!!! H did call me early in the morning...before I start work to wish me Happy Valentine's Day.
Later, he texted me to just vent about work... So, another day...
was rather fun. I have to say that I felt kinda sexy (but definitely not while the brazilian is executed. Felt kinda grossed out.... 
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