Quote: I guess this is a 'down' in the roller coaster ride. Kind of sucks because I was (foolishly) getting into the 'high'. Now it's time to be a rock and detached again.
This of course raises my anxiety levels and fears since as I was getting 'some' attention every day a 180 like this looks like a permanent move AWAY from me. Especially after her telling me it was 'ok for me to initiate things' with her on Thursday.
Yes, I am probably being neurotic. She probably got scared she was becoming dependent on me again and is going the opposite way to prove she can be 'her own woman'. I hope this isn't a trend.
All very true statements. You need to continue to detach no matter what. Her emotions are going through wild swings right. She is unsure of herself ans what she wants, all signs on the MLC. How is her little business doing? Does she have some clients? Maybe you could show your support by finding some for her, that would be an ACTION showing how you care. You are correct in the fact that she is way to needy and needs this to build new self confidence. You are doing okay, keep it up. Ciao.
