The checked comment is just a slang, dont think anything of it.
AmyC has a valid point. I guess the real thing is to whatch actions and listen to what your WAS is really saying. If you believe nothing of what you hear and 50% of what she does then it amazing what is really going on.
Shark
P.S. I hope I have the ability to back off and let my wife come to me as I still think needs to happen more in your situation Frank.
