I'm gonna repeat someting my C said to me. I had commented that I wanted to get on wtih fixing our marriage and she said "but you ARE fixing your marriage right now". You don't always need a verbal recommittment from the other person. You are married, you are living in the same house and right now you are having somewhat of a loving relationship. Why not just relax a little and enjoy it? You ARE fixing your marriage right now. One day she is gonna get up off of that pull out be and the lightbulb is gonna pop on and she is gonna think to herself "wow, i have such a great marriage, why did I ever think I wanted out of it/"

I don't know if I explained it in a way that you understand but the point is, you don't have to wait to fix your marriage, you are fixing it right now. Hold onto that and take each day one day at a time.


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