A simple thing I have been thinking lately is that we spend so much time, after we find ourselves in these situations, trying to figure out how this or that fits in with what we know. We try to analyze what everything means. We do all that and lose sight that we are just men and women interacting with each other and the results can be very unpredictable. I have spent so much time thinking of the right things to say and do, it seems almost too easy to just say and do what I want to do and would do if I were trying to attract a woman to me. Isn't that what it's all about after we strip away all the other garbage? Isn't that what we all want? We want to be attracted to, and attractive to our spouses on a physical and emotional level. I think that's what we all sense with your sitch Frank. You and your W are becoming attractive to each other again. Will it be enough? Who knows but it is where it HAS to start, don't you think?
