Her mom and Grandma are here today also. This morning W was every so slightly flirty with me, and she messed up and got 'cute' with me in a playful argument in front of Mom/Grandma. Oops. I don't think she noticed but I looked at their faces and they were very puzzled as to how she could be so cute with me, and I with her yet we are getting DIVORCED.
I'm not going to talk to them about any of this, but it would be interesting if her mom were to mention her observations to her because she has to intuitively see that W sees me as more than 'a friend'. We can always hope.
I do have to back off. I have to go to 'detached' again so she can 'pull me back to her'. She's getting too complacent and if she's going to decide to commit again, I have to upset the balance so she can feel the lonelyness and rejection from me.
I hate that part because, well, it's been nice to have the attention from her. But this is a PROCESS and it needs to proceeed.
