By holding the cards, I guess I mean it would seem that it is up to *you* to allow how much and when in some ways. Consider how you have grown and who you have become. I know the mixed signals are difficult - but recall that you were on the "final" chapter a couple weeks back.
This I guess is why I suggest caution. WAS's want to keep us at arms length if things don't work out. I find myself wondering how today will iron out for me (as I do every Sunday). Will she come home from OM's and say she broke it off? Some of her behaviour the past couple days would indicate she might. But I know better - so I'll plan to do what I did a couple weeks ago and just make my leave from the house when she gets home from work. I need to keep moving on for me and we cannot get better until OM is completely out of the picture.
When do you and W have another MC session? Certainly it would seem you guys have lots to talk about.
In the meantime, go with the flow but keep up the caution. Some real honesty from your W is coming or needs to get out in the open. Patience as usual is the key.
Nothing new to add then, other than my support.
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
