Thanks for chiming in a couple days back (on your own sitch mind you). I'm still just flabergasted on how similar. I've too got some of the same stuff going on...W has been very playful, flirtatious, etc. Its frustrating sure, but I think it allows for some kind of connection that WAS's need.
I think you are doing the right thing overall with it - poster "slowly" had posted on my sitch that she and her H would ML even through their tough parts as a way to keep connected. However, I'd advise caution - my stuff of the past couple days is my reason for suggesting it. I think you have the right idea to make her work for it a little bit - she's engaging and that is a good thing - but she is not to the point of a re-commit, right? Just advising to spare your heart man.
Your holding the cards Frank and that is a great thing. Be patient.
You've "leapfrogged" me and my sitch but I still have hope even while living in the reality of it all. W is off this weekend to see OM, but I've been able to distance myself again and with the help of Just_Me and JoeSchmoe, I've got the strength...
Futhermore I'm really competitive and need to leapfrog you!
Good for you, my best to you!
Sven
Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.
