the long walk home final chapter - 2

[Becca1975]

You know Frank, the more you guys do this stuff the more you are building intimacy, whether she thinks she is just "playing house" or not, eventually it will seem very real. I'd say that you should continue with it and let it build, and then on the off chance she decides to make her move one day, she will have something to miss. You guys are actually laying a very good foundation right now, for the future. She just doesn't realize it.

At least keep doing it and wait until you can discuss it with your counselor. The way I see it, it isn't like most of our stories here where we are living in different houses and have to cut the spouse off, we are doing that to try to get them to come home, your W is already home. You have to keep her there. Anything you do to keep her there and keep her happy can only work in your favor.