If you find a way to bottle up all the love you have for your wife and "give it someone else" be sure to post it REALLY BIG so everyone of these people here can do it, too. We're all tired.
We don't have the luxury of deciding when we will love and no longer love. Matters of the heart are not in our control. Only whether or not we express what is in our hearts is within our control. You can go pick up someone somewhere but it won't do anything to ease your pain or make you stop loving your wife. So there is no "giving it to someone else". Sure, it would be easier if we could all do that but we can't!
I know it seems like a long time since this all started for you, but 2 months is a drop in the hat compared to some of these folks. Every 5 or 6 days you are looking for someone to tell you to give up and move on. We are not quitters and I, for one, am not going to tell you to quit.
You haven't been AT this long enough yet. When will it be "long enough"? Only you will know.
Shark, I've been talking with you since your very first post and as I said on your thread earlier today, it is time for you to get in the trenches with the rest of us and try to help others on this board. You have an experience that someone out there else needs to know about. SHARE IT. The pain AND the lessons.
