I have read a lot of your posts. It is so weird that your wife is saying what she is saying. From the outside looking in, don’t take the bait. Keep doing what you are doing and it looks better than I have ever read. I can see now how I must be so that I do not take the bait as well. It is very weird the difference between those working on the marriage and those that don’t.
I know of 5 people who are D or S in my apartment complex. They live very strange lives.
Like they are lost or something???
I pulled up the other day and two guys who I know start telling me “I don’t want it and I don’t need it”.
They say keep telling your self that. One of them asks me how old I am. I say 35. He says, at 36 I was on my second marriage. I gave him a friendly finger and said ‘”and I am going to take advice from you”. I am in till the end, when my wife says its over and files the paperwork and 6 months and one day passes. Then I will move on, at that point I think it would be best. But that is only my time line. Other than that things are going well and I hope I get something like you Frank.
You know something very interesting:
When I chase my wife she gets strong and pulls away. When I get strong and pull away she acts different. There is a pattern emerging over the past 2months of this. During this time frame I have had two episode of weakness that lasts for about 3 – 5 days and during this time she is very strong in her move. But during the time in between she calls me or emails me for weird stuff and usually it’s about the kids. Oh and the funny thing, I am DB’ing and I always try to get off the phone first so I end up saying goodbye at least 3 times before we finish. She always has something else to say or ask me.
Funning thing yesterday when she dropped of the kids I swear she looked to see if I was wearing my ring. It really looked like it but I could be mistaken.
Like I said before, I am golden to you Frank. Outside looking in, anybody who thought you should leave now gets the friendly finger. IMO
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