What are you really afraid of here? Why are you letting her (yes, letting her) treat you this way?
Are you really afraid she's going to say "get out"? I mean, to me it sounds like you are weighing that possibility with some of what you say and do. You had the perfect opportunity to draw a boundary with her when you noticed she just wants to be mad at you. Why are you letting her project her behavior to you? It appears to me that she's doing some of why my H used to do....behave towards me in a manner in which I will behave the way he expected me to. Your W is being b!tchy to you in order to provoke you to behave the way she needs you to to justify her anger at you....make sense? If you don't rise to her bait....she looks pretty foolish being angry with you.
When you were asking questions of her and she just kept snapping, did you calmly say...."you haven't answered the question."?
I'm also going to throw something I hate to out there, but I think this needs to be answered....could there be someone else in the picture?
