Sometimes I just feel like any conflict with her is going to lead to yelling and then her saying "get out"
As such, unless I am ready to "get out" there is no point starting the conflict. I just stay calm, listen to her and try to understand.
Yes, I am saying that if I drew boundaries she would NOT tolerate it. We had many arguements a year ago about our sex life and she ALWAYS said it was my problem, she wasn't going to do anything about it and I could take it or leave it.
She would probably say that she is the one participating in the marriage and I am mentally absent.
I really don't know how to explain myself. I am going to go home now and see what happens. We have a busy night as usual so we will be passing each other in and out the door till 9pm or so...
