If this has been going on for a while, it will take a while to get it working again. You must be steadfast in your attempts. If she rejects you or seems to come back with negative comments, blow it off and try again tomorrow or tonight. It will take her a while to build her trust in you again. I know it sounds like a load of crap for you to deal with, but what would you rather do? Keep on the way things are going, or put whatever effort it takes for however long, and eventually be where you both want to be.
God is love, love is blind, Ray Charles is blind......so there.
