You tell your wife what you want and need in terms of physical response, right? And then nothing changes. You know all those excuses she gives you for not wanting to have sex? "I'm tired, it's too late, kids have been hanging on me all day, yadda, yadda, yadda... "
Okay... well, she's told you she needs EC to get sexual with you... sounds like she is even willing to go there with you, has been trying...
YET. You are doing the VERY THING you accuse her of doing... dropping a ton of excuses. Here they are, in no particular order:
Quote: If I do not hang out with her and get close to her then she cannot have sex. 1. Of course, we have both been swamped and there has been NO time TO have with her. 2. I am behind on my projects because of the little time I have managed and that is not enough. 3. The problem is that I end up post-poning everything in my life and hanging out with her for two weeks (shopping, digging up rocks, whatever...) the whole while being paranoid about whether I am the cool loving guy she would want to have sex with. And then bamm... two weeks go by... no sex, I'm stressed over all the stuff I haven't gotten done...
Me, me, me, me, me....
You are postponing YOUR life to hang out with her? Really? Are you serious? And you wonder why you aren't getting laid with that attitude of yours?
