WCW haven't posted to you in a bit, I have kept up, I have just been wallowing in my own stich. Bad thing to do I know. Between the nothing is changing and the OW, and the realization that I continue to screw up, I have left off giving advise to others when I am so lost myself. You are doing so much better than you realize. Relax take care of yourself and let things happen as they may with your "roommate." BTW, I loved the breast stroke joke. Did you send that back to everyone whom I sent my joke to? If so, you sent it to my H also.