WCW,

Glad to hear you are feeling stronger and less pulled by what your H does or says. I think this is key. It does not mean you do not have to have compassion or love for you H but it is healthy detachment. Good for you!

Just a thought that I have been working on internalizing: every time we make H the bad guy or jerk or whatever , we make ourselves the victims... and give them and the situation power over us.

OK, my 2 cents for the day!

Keep up the GALing!!!
brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05