Quote: can I really handle the results of whichever way the wind blows? More and more I am thinking I can.
It's great to hear this!!! I know it is a very gradual thing (I never got there myself-but moved in that direction). I know you would still be devastated if it ended tomorrow. But, I am so glad you are getting closer to this. Whatever happens with your H, you will be better off closer to this point than farther from it.
Quote: And is it such a bad idea for him to know that?
Nope. Not in my mind. But, of course, HOW he figures it out is all important.
