Don't mention or ask about the future if you're looking for more tender moments from H. Just don't do it. Please! It's just reinforcing his assenine thinking that as soon as he gives you an inch you take a mile.
Never mind that he is giving you SQUAT. But, for your own sake, don't ask him about the future unless you're really prepared to tell him to sh!t or get off the pot at this point. If you're doing it because your insides ache to be held-I think you are going to get hurt again.
I'm still not the hard core DBer that's telling you to keep a lid on your needs indefinately...or until you are positive he's not going to run away again. Just think about the reaction you are likely going to get from an e-card that mentions the future and how you are going to react to that reaction. Then act based on that. If you are just so numbed to it all that you couldn't really care which way the wind blows, then I guess it doesn't matter what you write or if you send it at all. But, if you are feeling small and vulnerable right now, ask yourself if you can handle Mr. Cold as a Tree in a Wisconsin Winter in response.
