Drop the question about the future. May come off as needy. He most likely won't say anything positive...in his mind, doing his best not to lead you on. Send the card, be chipper, be attractive. Think horse whisperer, WCW. Make him think it is his idea to engage you. :-D
The hug and hand on your waist thing is great. Revel in that single moment. Stay positive.
Happy V-Day. My mediation may well be tomorrow. Your V-day could be worse! Ha ha!