If your H is anything like mine issuing him with an ultimatum will not work in your favour.. With my H its about being in control of his life and his own situation and decisions.
Any ultimatums or pressure I have ever put on my H has gone against me and just made me feel worse..
But everyone is different. Some people need ultimatums to make decisions but with my H I no this is the worst thing I can do...
U are the only one who really knows your H and what he is like. Go with how you feel on this..
As long as you can cope and continue at the moment then stick to it.. Take each day as it comes....
When you ready to give your H an ultimatum then you will..
