Hanging on/The Long Haul #9

[Becca1975]

Hmmm....that bothers me that he gets to spend so much time with BOW. I know that doesn't help you any but I'd be inclined to put my foot down adn say "hey buddy, make a decision". Either work on the marriage and get BOW out of your life, no more going over there, no contact unless both of you there, or move the hell out. Just like my H, he manages to have the best of both worlds. C wants me to figure out how to take that away from my H, and it is gonna take some hard steps. What can you do?