DBing and going through the D process?

[PhotogDad]

For those of you that are at the beginning of your divorce paperwork filings, mediation and court appearances (or have already done so), how have you been handling your DBing? Are/were you still hoping for a reconciliation or did you do it all for you in order become a better person for yourself (realizing that a reconciliation would never happen)?

My wife seems to have been abducted by aliens or suffering from an MLC that's she's taking an aggressive "I'm done with you" path - serving me with D-papers. We've spoken 3x by phone and 1x in person in the past 4 weeks; all daughter related. No R or M talk. Very very cold.

You can read my ongoing sitch in my signature link.

Thanks