Hopefully the meeting with the 3rd L will be helpful for you and your W. Compromise where you can but do keep your boundaries in place.
Did you ever talk with OM's mom? I wonder what she had to say.
I resumed IC yesterday. I was uncomfortable with my anger and how I was handling it. No great revelations from C, but confirmation about some thoughts and plans that I had.
I hope you find IC useful. I too am uncomfortable with my anger and how I am dealing with it. That's one of the issues I am working on in IC. I do think we have to step outside our comfort zones in this process. We become stronger and healthier because of it.
What type of dogs do you have? I have a Newfoundland. She loves cold weather. Her favorite weather is 10 degrees and a blinding snowstorm. She's a great dog!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
