I have read so many posts, books, etc, and have learned so many new ideas that I'm having trouble sorting some things out. I would like some comments on this email that I sent to WAW on Friday. (Background info: DD's were visiting W's apt on Thu PM as is the usual schedule.)

Hi,

This morning at the breakfast table D14 was doing homework because she didn't take her book to the apartment last night. When I asked her if she was doing homework, she said, "Yes, I forgot my book last night. It was my fault." As far as I know this is the first time this has happened. I want to talk to D14 as to why she said, "It was my fault." From the way she said it, I got the impression she felt she needed to protect you.

We'll see you tonight at the show at the school.

H


What do you think?