I'm glad that you are finding some way to reel back in the anger and begin to find a way to some common middle ground with your WAW. It will not be easy and you might have to compromise a little more than you would like but if doing some simple validation makes life easier for you and DD's then it's worth it. It's so hard sometimes not to get angry. I get angry with my STBXH all the time. It seems like he gets the easy way out. But, I have to take the long and high road here and do what is best for my kids. In doing that I can hold my head up high and be proud of myself. You can too. You have so much to be proud of.
Have fun at the movie. The kids and I saw Pink Panther last weekend and it is hilarious!
WCB
God grant me the serenity,
to accept the things I cannot change,
To change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference.
- Reinhold Niebuhr
