I did send this email to WAW yesterday. I received no reply.
I understand that you want to spend more time w/DD's. I will listen to any ideas that you have. I believe that DD's need to start and end each school day from home.
To me it says, "I know that you miss seeing DD's at breakfast. I open to listening to you. I have set a boundary." Can I do any better than that?
Received email from WAW this AM stating that she will pick up DD's from school to go to the meeting tomorrow. I interpret this to mean that she doesn't want to come to an agreement.
I really do have two opposite opinions of how tomorrow will go. First, I feel cautiously confident b/c I really don't see how anyone could objectively look at the sitch and say that it is best for DD's to bounce back and forth. The other side of the coin is that I really can't understand some of the cr@p that goes on in our government these days and so I have a fear that what seems logical to me will actually seem logical to another.
I've noticed that in other cases of marital strife, the sitch is sometimes "turned around" after a major crisis in the life of the WAS. Sometimes its a death in their family, sometimes its the LBS starting an R w/someone else. If the custody schedule is not changed, then I wonder if this will be a light to WAW's tunnel.
I haven't flaunted my Christian beliefs in this forum, but if any of you are inclined to pray, I'd appreciate you including DD's in your prayers today and tomorrow.
