How about I try one more time. Start a thread in which you describe details about yourself, your relationship, actions you have taken to improve it, actions you would like to take, questions about your SPECIFIC situation that you would like advice on, problems you currently have and don't know how to solve, your history, etc. etc. etc. Try not to use the acronyms HD ND or LD once in that post. In fact, stay away from labels and just talk about you and your W. Do that and I'll bet you'll start getting more productive convos here on this board.
Just my two cents. Be well
Chromo
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"
