RE: Greeneyedlass my best advice to you two if you are stuck in this situation is to flat-out state your case with your W.

Start something new, start working out...but do some things for YOU that make you feel good. It truly does help.

So true GEL.

Now some of us caring guys have to get over the fear of hurting the SO's feelings and keep doing the "right/fair things," what ever they are.

Lou