Re ScottPA Speaking of the counseling,......so I had to reschedule for next Tuesday (our normal night). When I did that, my fiancee was NOT happy because that was Valentine's Day so now I may have to push it back AGAIN.
Scott. The above quote got to me as I have been through the same schedule (jump through her hoops) thing. I did jump through BB's hoops and the more I did, the less she worked on the MC enviroment as a whole.
It's my opinion, people that are not willing to find solutions to differences, use any and all excuses to not get out of their center of the universe seat.
I don't remember all of your R situation, but from what I know, I would ask miself "is this the way I want to live for the next 10/30 years?' I don't think anything changes unless one persons moves on or is willing to get off of "dead/no action" center.
So what is wrong with going to the C on Valentine's Day? It sounds like if everything is not perfect for your girlfriend, it is not worth spending any effort. Well, life and R's are not perfect but a lot better when "two" people work towards the same goal.
