QUOTE ____________________________________________________________ I told him "I'm damned if I do, damned if I don't....at this point, with you....there is no way I am going to get what I need because YOU have made up your mind you WON'T do it for whatever reason." ____________________________________________________________
Yep, that is it exactly!!! It is a hopeless feeling! The thing is that I have clearly stated this to my wife, but she still doesn't "get it". This is just going to have to be an issue to weed through with the MC. Speaking of the counseling, I am REALLY disappointed right now because we had to cancel this week's appointment because my SO is sick. There was no opportunity to reschedule this week, so I had to reschedule for next Tuesday (our normal night). When I did that, my fiancee was NOT happy because that was Valentine's Day so now I may have to push it back AGAIN. It is really disappointing for me because it is now going to be a month between sessions where both of us have attended (we have only had one session together so far).
Anyway, I agree about the self-esteem issue with MrMom.... whether it was an issue prior to his relationship/marriage.
