I'll respond more here in a bit, but for clarification on the "love languages" we're speaking of....there is a book "The Five Love Languages", it's an easy read, it's not expensive and you can order it via amazon.com or just pick it up at a book store....it'll clarify what we are talking about. There are 5 major love languages....everyone has a primary one out of those five, chances are hers isn't what you've been speaking (or doing)...that's a really, really, REALLY common thing to have happen.
