I know what it signifies to me - putting the stuff out of sight will help me realize he's not here anymore. Another door being closed. I wonder what it would signify to SO. I wonder why I care what it means to him. Anyone have any thoughts on this?
Yes. Do it. You are not moving away or changing the locks. You can wonder what it means to him, but still do it, just like he wonders what moving out did to you, but he still did it. If you want to change the bedroom around, then I think you should. If he wants to move back in, then he can have a say. Until then, it's YOUR bedroom. I would see that as part of GAL. Maybe I am wrong...others who are separated might do well to chime in...
