Quote: boy, I'm a wreck. And I don't want to be that way.
That's a great start. You have to WANT to change!
I know one of the issues with the OW is that she wants to meet his family and the kids. This was stated to me by her mother 2 months ago. I hope they all get sick and puke all over her. LMAO! Sorry kids - I really don't want you to get sick - but I do want her covered with vomit. And a little poop under the finger nails for good measure.
Well, for what it's worth, if I ever found out that OM met MY kids I would lose it totally! You are ahead of me on this one...
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Just saw this....yes, I DO want to change. I've always wanted to change. I realized long before now that we did have problems - only thing was, I didnt realize that I could (or should) be the one to start the ball rolling. I was so caught up in work, kids, etc - (excuses???)...anyway - I never realized that there were tools like DBing out there that could help. How stupid is that.
Humor....sick, misdirected, uncalled for...well, it has to help me thru the days...or hours. It's the only way I can deal right now. Imagining both of them trying to figure out how to get poop out from under their fingernails....or thinking about how OW won't able to study with a baby screaming in the background...or even SO suffering thru endless hours of teletubbies - well, that has to suffice in easing my pain until I can find some voo-doo dolls!
