As I think about it - it's the exact reason why I don't want the kids to meet the OW. She's a 24 year old girl. I know this is a sore point between them. I like knowing there's trouble in their world. And having the kids every other weekend....isn't that enabling things?? I mean they can have the fantasy every other weekend. That's horrible. I know - it's wrong of me to think that way and not a conducive way to repairing things. Just needed to get it out.
I don't know. I really thought I was letting things go. I mean, I never stopped him from seeing her; not that I had any control over it - that's not what I mean. I mean that I didn't interfere. even when I knew that's what he was doing; that's where he was going. And now, I've pushed him out of the house, directly into open arms; I'm going to be forced to watch my kids meet this girl; and watch him do everything to make THAT relationship work. Watch him do all the things that WE should have done to repair our R. This sucks.
Never mind...I'm rambling.
Thanks, GH....I'll take that out. My way of thinking was that it was Admitting I was wrong to him and acknowledging that I wasn't being quite as agreeable as I had thought.
