Thanks for stopping by. Wow...I went to bed around 8:30 last night...the race got rained out....I read a little bit (I've regressed to the point of children's books... lol...I'm reading the Narnia series - no self-help for me last night!! )....
...anyway...woke up feeling refreshed...the little girls both slept until 9 - wow! What a difference sleep can make. I'm still a little down, wasn't struck with any clarity during the night, but I did decide to try and come up with a "Plan" for him to be the one to move out. I just have to figure out how to present it to him in a way that doesn't make him feel threatened or like I'm doing it to "hang on" to him. It is, in a way, I think being closer to him will be advantageous, yet, he doesn't need to know that.
So, that's what I'm going to be working on over the next couple of days. I want to have every excuse he can come up with covered...I'll go back to work - even if at a grocery store or something, get the kids in daycare, anything to alleviate some of his financial burdens, etc.
In the meantime, I'll just take things as they come until I get my plane to Florida on Thursday!