NM, I agree with White. I would not be in anyone best interest for you to uproot your girls. SO should be the one to move out. I can not remember if I asked you this, if not I meant to. Have you read James Dobson LOVE MUST BE TOUGH?
I know this is so difficult, I'll continue to keep you in my prayers.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011