When SO got home today, he told me he wants me & the girls to move out...move about 2 hours away where "I can start a new life" and be clsoe to family.

I guess this is it. I told him I was going to leave tonight, go to my sisters...we were supposed to be going there anyway tomorrow for his nephews christening/birthday party, however I told him I wouldn't be going.

I did my best in validating everything he said, told him I respected his decision, but that once I was gone, the door was shut. He said don't say that, you never know what will happen. I told him that was why I had wanted him to move out - he was one person and for me to uproot the kids would be the final option.

This hurts.