Strange events last night. SO left for work last night after telling me he'd be home afterwards. Once again - odd. About 2:45 AM, I get a phone call from him saying he was "just going to stay over here and sleep in the car". I simply said OK. About 45 minutes later he calls back and starts the convo with: "NM, you know I care about you right? Well, I wanted to call you and tell you I won't be at work in the morning. I called X to come in." I asked "What? What's wrong?" He said, "I respect you so I thought I'd tell you so you wouldn't worry in the morning." Somewhere in there I thought I heard him say "We have to talk". He said he was at his work office ( 1 hour from where he was working, 1 hour from here, yet, coincidentally 15 minutes from OW) and he was sleeping in his car.
I don't even really remember much that we said after that, although from his tone, it sounded like he was crying? I'm pretty sure this has something to do with OW.
I'm upset. Not screaming, crying, obsessed upset. More of an "at a loss as what to do" upset. For him to call in sick to work - that's a big, big thing. This will be only the 3rd time in 9 years that I've known him that he's not gone to work. And the other 2 times, he was really & truly sick.
I know I shouldn't presume things. Easier said than done given his bizarre behavior. Anyone with any ideas or suggestions on how to handle this?
