It seems that this has been going on for so long. The back & forth, the fence-sitting, the cake-eating....I'm so drained. Emotionally, physically, everything. I have to wonder if "forcing" him out isn't perhaps the "best" thing to do. Kick him off Fantasy Island and out into the real world.
Like you said - No, I don't see anyone happier with their S out of the house. And, should I ask him to leave, it could almost be seen as an ultimatum of sorts.