If you have no will to live, I cannot give it to you. I can only help you if you are willing to help yourself. You can aruge with me until the cows come home. Believe me, I have used every single one of your arguments and then some... and I am one smart chick. Too smart for my own good.
In a 'do' or 'do not' situation, there is no argument. There are no excuses. There is only 'do' or 'do not.' You are still arguing, which tells me you are not yet ready to 'do.'
That is not a judgment, but an assessment of where you are. When you are read 'to do,' let me know. There will be no stopping you.