Why do you resent his sexual need -- porn/MB-- when he has no other outlet?
YIKES! Being a 2-yr-old "born again virgin" I can empathize with the lack of opportunity for the release of a male's sexual energy.
- Is pornography an emotionally healthy outlet for that energy?
- Is prostitution an emotionally healthy outlet for that energy?
- Is it possible to develop a R with a picture (moving or still)?
- Isn't porn all about the theater of the mind, letting your imagination run wild with a situation that less of a chance of happening than winning the $300M power ball?
There are some who say that porno is not healthy b/c it sets up impossible illusions of a physical relationship. Porn is also addicting (see Matt's prior problems w/drinking).
I don't think that the lack of sex in Heather's marriage is an excuse for H's porn habits. The habit just can't contribute to getting their R/M on the road to wellness.
