Ok guys, you're going to have to be really blunt with me because I'm not getting it. I wanted a 9pm bedtime, but we compromised on 9:30. Now that isn't working either. He did have some say-we both agreed on that.

I don't know, I guess I'm confused. I don't see this as H rebelling against my control, I see this as H trying to maintain control. Trying to keep the status quo where I don't challenge him and if I do I am taught that it will be to my detriment.

This is where I start to feel like I'm less than sane, because this is more of the same in my eyes, yet maybe you all don't agree?


"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."

- Nathaniel Hawthorne