Can't he just buy a freakin game and play when he has time and leave it at that?

That's his "hobby", Heather. Why let it irk you?

Another bedtime drama with S5... lately H has been going along fine when I remind them of the time. I was surprised at his stance tonight

Anything else happen earlier in the day between you two? You said you had a bad day.

He said... that I should have
I said...
He tried to turn it back on me saying...


It's these sort of interactions that you'll be bringing up to the counselor (right?) who'll then hopefully guide you both towards how to constructively resolve matters or argue effectively.

I made a couple crucial mistakes tonight.

It's good you recognize that.