This morning, was fine, I took the kids to daycare as usual. That's good, a total surprise though. Maybe I was wrong to jump to conclusions or maybe the weekend to cool off was a help or maybe the fact that he is working far out the way this week is a factor. Who knows. The important thing is that the matter was not escalated.
Friday night, I said to H "Clearly you're not happy with me. Do you want to talk about it?" He said "No." I said "You don't want to tell me what is I've done that's made you so upset?" He said "I don't want to talk about it." I said ok and I watched a movie. I don't know what more I can do except wait for him to come out of this mood.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
