Wish I'd been here over the weeked to share your relative happiness before this happened. Reading your posts, I was SO hoping for the beginning of a happy ending for you. It's still possible but I wish you didn't have to go through more hell to get there. Look forward to that trip with your D and hopefully other things will work our for you. OBVIOUSLY you W is going through some intense confusion and that's a good thing. You knew it was comming. Just keep your wits about you and keep doing the right thing.