Quote: I put a couple of encouraging Bible verses and a short note letting her know that I'm looking forward to the day when she, D, and I can be a family again. Anyway, I think she will appreciate it, as it is a very supportive, non-pressuring card. We'll see.
RB, that IS a pressure filled note, wouldn't you think? Maybe the card wasn't, but the note was. I think they call it "passive pursuit" here on the board.
As far as your Disney trip - please don't use it as an attempt to get something from your W, or an ultimatum or whatever. That's kind of what it sounds like. If you want to go for you and D, then do it for THAT reason and no other. My suggestion is that you book the trip, according to your schedule, then tell W the dates. Not in an "asking" way; rather in a way that shows you're going with her or without her, and for D's enjoyment. Not based on whether W is still involved in A or not.
