Thanks, NM. Initially, OM wanted to give D some time and space before any introduction. As a matter of fact, I still have his email from January 20, where he states about D "I would not try and jump into her life in the middle of a situation that is already going to be hard enough. She needs to be settled before any of that happens."
The fact that he's suddenly changed his mind and is willing to start big fights about it indicates to me that he may be getting desperate. So, yes, this is good news in a way.
I just don't know what to do if W agrees to do it. Maybe I should let OM see her. I think it's a little different for you, though, NM, because, nationwide, "mommy's boyfriend" is responsible for most of the child abuse that occurs. What if I just let D go over there and OM abuses her? How could I forgive myself?
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)