Here's something Oldtimer posted to me in my last thread when I faced having my kids go with SO for the 1st time. I found this interesting, and maybe you can use it with your W:
Quote: As for OW being so keen on meeting the kids and introducing them around (GAG), it may very well backfire on her. Anyone I've known that has really been serious about a LTR with someone with kids has been VERY worried about taking it slow, being sure about the R, etc... So, meeting the kids may have been an excuse for her to keep from getting more serious (probably unconsiously). And, if so, as the roadblocks disappear to them being together in "the perfect relationship" they would only have if only the world didn't conspire against them, the more they will have to deal with their R, rather than an overromanticized "us against the world" R, if that makes any sense.
The part that I'm trying to point out is the part about the OP taking it slow with meeting the kids. Like, in other words, if they really loved our P's, they would take into account the effect of the new R on the children. Or, another way to put it - they are only considering themselves when not taking the well-being of the children into account about all this.
Hope this helps...or makes sense. I feel for you, I'm sorry I don't have anything ebtter to help you thru this. {{{{RB}}}}
